How to Get Women to Like You—5 Helpful Tips for First Timers

I remember a few years back when it was my first time trying to get a date from a bar and, trust me; it was one of the most memorable days of my life too. I sat at the counter with my drink trying to do what my friends were doing and sad to say, I never got a date that day. Looked like I wasn’t up for it yet, but what I do remember, however, was how I kept to mind what my friends were doing and later on, I used their same techniques, and finally got myself a girlfriend.

They seemed to go with their tricks smoothly so I thought, if I took enough notes now, I’d probably be a dating guru soon. Two things happened for sure: I got a date and I’m probably what you call a dating guru now that I’ve discovered how to get women to like you:

1. On top of the list should be confidence. As long as you know how to stay calm, cool, and confident, it would be easy for you to approach any woman you fancy, win a conversation with her and probably her number. Confidence counts a lot if you want to know how to get women to like you. The more confident you are, the easier it would be for you to say whatever it is you’d like to say without fumbling on your words.
2. Next, watch how you dress. If you want to win some serious date, you’re going to have to wear something that looks serious too. Go casual and simple, don’t overdress and most importantly, don’t try to look like someone you’re not. If you’re there for a temporary romp, then try to look flashy on first glance if possible. Catch attention with the first glance so as to win yourself any date—don’t expect someone serious though. Be hygienic and as neat as possible—comb your hair, trim your nails, brush your teeth, chew some breath fresheners, and the like.
3. Do a little flirting—hey, that’s why they made dating right? You have to flirt sometimes too. If there’s someone you want to get attracted to you, you might want to show off a smile. Eye to eye contact can be flattering too so don’t be ashamed to shoot a glance at the girls you’re beginning to fancy.
4. When women are beginning to move closer to you, or if you feel like there’s someone you wouldn’t want to miss talking to, then walk up to her and be the first to introduce yourself. Drop a pick up line if you like but try to make it less cheesy if possible. Be as polite as you possibly can and try to be humorous. Women love funny guys so don’t be afraid to be a clown at times.
5. If you want to invite a girl to a drink or a dance, then do so. Be brave enough to take the lady by the hand and pull her out to the dance floor, or if you’re tired from the dancing, invite a girl to the counter for a drink plus offer to pay for her drink. You could also pick her beverage unless she wants something else.

Well that’s how it went for me before, and as far as I know, everything went well from then on. There other ways on how to get women to like you, so don’t close in on these few tips alone. If the situation calls for you to be “playful,” then go ahead—as long as it wins you that date in a lifetime, why not?